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When my cat wants more attention than I'm offering...
Jun 7, 2019 at 2:40am
I'm coding, focused, busy.
My tabby is in my lap, clawing at my shirt and gnawing at my arm.
I'm still focused, debugging, tracing, thinking.
So, to get my attention he climbs over my shoulder, hops over the computer, then places his paw on the power supply fan, squeezing the tip of his claw into the blades.....bzzzzzzzz.
He looks at me knowing this ticks me off.
But....NOW, I'm paying attention to him.
He loves it!
My tabby is in my lap, clawing at my shirt and gnawing at my arm.
I'm still focused, debugging, tracing, thinking.
So, to get my attention he climbs over my shoulder, hops over the computer, then places his paw on the power supply fan, squeezing the tip of his claw into the blades.....bzzzzzzzz.
He looks at me knowing this ticks me off.
But....NOW, I'm paying attention to him.
He loves it!
Jun 7, 2019 at 6:05pmclosed account (367kGNh0)
I will not lie, and let you live a lie
Momentary occurrences being shared like this just cause me to feel like a millennial, a time murderer, a person who afflitiates themselved with occurences that are merely futile to be aware of. Therefore I despise this post, the formality is lacks, the futulity that vitiates it, is polluting. But if we shall stuff our eyes, we will fail to be aware of what may lie, within
Momentary occurrences being shared like this just cause me to feel like a millennial, a time murderer, a person who afflitiates themselved with occurences that are merely futile to be aware of. Therefore I despise this post, the formality is lacks, the futulity that vitiates it, is polluting. But if we shall stuff our eyes, we will fail to be aware of what may lie, within
Jun 7, 2019 at 6:11pm
@Rascake WELL THEN...
I guess your cat isn't as independent as most. Sounds cute. You could always lock it out of your room, but maybe that's a bit cruel </3
I guess your cat isn't as independent as most. Sounds cute. You could always lock it out of your room, but maybe that's a bit cruel </3
Jun 7, 2019 at 8:42pm
At least he's not a kitten anymore. My new kittens get weird when they get bored. Lately they've figured out how to jump up onto the top of the bookshelf, which is over 2 meters up.
You should employ punitive cuddling. Grab him and hold him in your arms belly up, like a baby. Some cats will already not like this, while others will tolerate or even enjoy this. You can follow up by rubbing, tapping, or nibbling his belly[1], ruffling his head, or sniffing him intensely, especially near his ears. That last part in particular, every cat I've had has hated that. Obviously if you know other ways to bother him without harming him, those should work, as well.
Do this every time he tries to get your attention by annoying you and he'll learn to stop doing that. Do note that this doesn't work to, for example, keep him off a table; cats don't understand the causal link between jumping onto a table and you punishing them. They should be able to understand the link between trying to get your attention and getting unpleasant attention from you.
[1] Don't do this unless you know how he'll react! Some cats are really not fond of having their bellies touched, although IME most will tolerate their human touching them. Nibbling him puts you in prime face-scratching position.
You should employ punitive cuddling. Grab him and hold him in your arms belly up, like a baby. Some cats will already not like this, while others will tolerate or even enjoy this. You can follow up by rubbing, tapping, or nibbling his belly[1], ruffling his head, or sniffing him intensely, especially near his ears. That last part in particular, every cat I've had has hated that. Obviously if you know other ways to bother him without harming him, those should work, as well.
Do this every time he tries to get your attention by annoying you and he'll learn to stop doing that. Do note that this doesn't work to, for example, keep him off a table; cats don't understand the causal link between jumping onto a table and you punishing them. They should be able to understand the link between trying to get your attention and getting unpleasant attention from you.
[1] Don't do this unless you know how he'll react! Some cats are really not fond of having their bellies touched, although IME most will tolerate their human touching them. Nibbling him puts you in prime face-scratching position.
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Jun 7, 2019 at 8:56pmclosed account (367kGNh0)
| Are you being obtuse on purpose? |
Jul 9, 2019 at 12:31am
My girlfriend has a furry ragdoll. We are bitter rivals, but I love when he becomes floppy in my arms after picking him up.
Jul 9, 2019 at 6:42am| My girlfriend is just amazing. I just gotta find her. |
Jul 9, 2019 at 6:46am
If your cat wants your attention, rather than punitive attention, just give some love. After that your cat will be happy and purr while you code.
@helios
I’ve seen cats jump fences like that. Impressive, no?
I had some friends, all of them very tall people, and their cats were used to jumping up and sitting on a shoulder like a bird. Once when I was visiting one of the cats decided it liked me enough to sit on my shoulder.
Would have been cool, too, had I not flinched and the cat changed her mind.
@helios
I’ve seen cats jump fences like that. Impressive, no?
I had some friends, all of them very tall people, and their cats were used to jumping up and sitting on a shoulder like a bird. Once when I was visiting one of the cats decided it liked me enough to sit on my shoulder.
Would have been cool, too, had I not flinched and the cat changed her mind.
Jul 9, 2019 at 7:04am| If I may ask, that is, this whole American affection practice, to me, a Brit, seems rather excessive. |
It was a joke, relax.
Jul 9, 2019 at 3:03pm| relax. |
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Jul 9, 2019 at 4:05pm| Why the sense of obligation? Do you intend for the newfound partner to eventually become your bride, or are your intentions temporary? If I may ask, that is, this whole American affection practice, to me, a Brit, seems rather excessive. |
I think you might be taking the joke a little too seriously.
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Jul 9, 2019 at 4:46pm| I am all but in tranquil. Though four words word make me feel urge to shake my head at your post, you would be interesting in knowing them? |
Great, another Rascake
Jul 9, 2019 at 5:27pm
Sorry. I guess the words were powerful. I suppose it was merely a joke, however I do appologise for whatever disatisfaction was arroused. I suppose it did become a little resembling to rascakes "I dissaprove of you" attitude
Wow, what would that be like,
"ah man, i though I really made a new impersonation, but alas you caught me"
Wow, what would that be like,
"ah man, i though I really made a new impersonation, but alas you caught me"
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Jul 9, 2019 at 7:55pm| Wow, what would that be like, "ah man, i though I really made a new impersonation, but alas you caught me" |
It would be like what you're thinking right now
Jul 9, 2019 at 9:24pm| @helios I’ve seen cats jump fences like that. Impressive, no? |
| I had some friends, all of them very tall people, and their cats were used to jumping up and sitting on a shoulder like a bird. Once when I was visiting one of the cats decided it liked me enough to sit on my shoulder. Would have been cool, too, had I not flinched and the cat changed her mind. |
Jul 9, 2019 at 9:30pm| Great, another Rascake |
| I suppose it did become a little resembling to rascakes |
Context?
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