This would in turn imply that all elements of set S have the same absolute value. |
This is not possible, since you already stated that S the same as the real set.
(Several times I'll use "in" as short for "is an element of" in the following text.)
Consider R^2, which is the set of
all pairs (x,y) where x,y in R. That is, R^2 contains every combination of two real numbers, such as (0,0), (0,1), (0,0.5), (e,pi), (pi,e), and so on.
The relation P is a subset of R^2, composed of all the pairs of reals whose squares are equal, such as (1,1), (1,-1), (-1,1), (-1,-1), (-4,4), and so on.
It's true that x and y are members of R, and it's also true that |x|=|y| (within the context of P), but it's obviously not true that |x|=|y| for all x,y in R. The statement |x|=|y| only makes sense when treated within the context of the definition of P, which states that: (x,y) in P iff |x|=|y|, where x,y in R. In other words, |x|=|y| for all elements (x,y) of P, since that is the definition of P.