Indecency
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So...a few months ago this young family moved in next door to mine. The mother is about 13 years older than I am. Well anyways...she's a stripper, my dad and I only suspected it when she moved in, but we've confirmed it since. Well we've thrown a small party with our neighbors, her family being some, and she's drunk, and hitting on me...I'm not quite sure how to get her to back the eff off. I'm 18...but she's married.
She wouldn't of hit on me if she wasnt drunk....also her husband is a large Russian man who I'm quite sure could break me.
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Well here is the rule... it is alright if you can take the older persons age divide by two and add seven.
SOOO...
31/2=15.5
15.5+7=22.5
therefore she is too old sorry, she really sounds nice :(
SOOO...
31/2=15.5
15.5+7=22.5
therefore she is too old sorry, she really sounds nice :(
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That only proves that it would be creepy, not that it's "not alright", whatever that means.
Try to talk to her about her hitting on you while drunk. Play with a guarded attitude. Say things like "I don't know what you expect but I don't think this will work out..." See what she answers. If she persists, say things like "What if your husband finds out?". Don't forget that there's always the chance that her husband has no problem with him and his new neighbor DPing his wife every once in a while... :D
| She wouldn't of hit on me if she wasnt drunk....also her husband is a large Russian man who I'm quite sure could break me. |
Anyways, doesnt this indicate that nerds and geeks are still sexier than large men who can break them.
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| That only proves that it would be creepy, not that it's "not alright", whatever that means. |
Are you trying to slyly say that it's ok to have sexual desire for people thirteen years younger than yourself? I suppose that as he's 18, it's ok.
| Wekk here is the rule... it is alright if you can take the older persons age divide by two and add seven. |
I dislike this rule.
In my opinion, as long as both parties are consenting and are old enough to make decisions for themselves, it's ok. Where actual sexual intercourse is involved, both parties should (again, in my opinion) have started puberty. However, as cases have been recorded where people have started puberty between the ages of 8 and 18 (and sometimes not at all); given that the average age at which puberty occurs in humans (disregarding that females usually start puberty earlier than males), which (AFAIK) is 12 years, I think that's a fair limit.
Also, before someone says "so you're advocating paedophilia" I'm not. Paedophilia only occurs when one party has passed puberty and the other has yet to start it.
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| Pedophilia (or paedophilia) is a psychiatric disorder in adults or late adolescents (persons age 16 and older) characterized by a primary or exclusive sexual interest in prepubescent children. |
I'm saying there's no such thing as "OK" and "not OK". Aside from that, sure, I think that's fine. As long as you're at least 13. Before then, it can get weird.
Why? Like I said, 12 is the average age at which puberty occurs. Why particularly 13 anyway?
Good. That's something we can agree on: that "the norm" is subjective. For example, most men in Western society are sexually attracted to women's breasts (this is a fetish because breasts aren't inherently sexual) but in some cultures that would be seen as "disgusting". On the other hand, some of those cultures perform "thighing" which most people in our culture would see as "disgusting" or "wrong" (or perhaps just "weird").
Normality is subjective.
| I'm saying there's no such thing as "OK" and "not OK" |
Good. That's something we can agree on: that "the norm" is subjective. For example, most men in Western society are sexually attracted to women's breasts (this is a fetish because breasts aren't inherently sexual) but in some cultures that would be seen as "disgusting". On the other hand, some of those cultures perform "thighing" which most people in our culture would see as "disgusting" or "wrong" (or perhaps just "weird").
Normality is subjective.
| Are you trying to slyly say that it's ok to have sexual desire for people thirteen years younger than yourself? |
heh, I wont forget to tell you guys, But I doubt there will be anything happening. I'm moving out soon.
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