Hi Sam, welcome to the forum.
C++ is actually my first and only language. The reason people repeat the "C++ probably shouldn't be your first language" mantra is because C++ doesn't hold your hand and therefore might dissuade potential newcomers to the programming world, but I think you can learn anything if you really want to.
I've been programming exclusively in C++ for almost a decade and I couldn't be happier with my choice.
As for this site, it's pretty unique. If you have a question and want to start a new thread, it helps to know how to use code-tags and other formatting options. Take a look here:
http://www.cplusplus.com/articles/jEywvCM9/
Asking proper questions, posting formatted code and any potential compiler errors will make it so much more likely that others will want to help you. It might not seem like much, but a polished post makes all the difference between an abandoned thread and a lively discussion.
Finally, it's a good idea to copy your post to your clipboard before you submit it. In my experience, if you take too long to write your post and submit it, the page will time-out and your post will be gone - if you have your post copied on your clipboard you can simply try again and paste and submit.