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Now I didn't really want to be involved in this drama oscus1 thing on the forum, but this statement really really disgusted me... |
kemort wrote: |
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Thoughts? Hi -Albatross, Since you ask ... I think it is a little ironical that a relative newbie, namely oscus has been singled out. Sure, his posts have ruffled a few of the feathers of the numerically extensive posters here but it is a storm in a teacup pushed a long way by my elsewhere referred to stacks-on-the-mill approach - not unusual iggy-ganging-up-type response common to north america blogs I observe over a number of years. My own experience with being reported is by petulant newbies throwing a tanty on a couple of occasions, a response in some other one or two cases to my failure at being witty (my fault which I have to take on the chin), but in a couple of cases by a couple of longstanders I describe as the C++ taliban, array police or vector nazis who harp on and on about using namespace, std (there's an ambiguity there) and a couple of other relatively trivial issues shrouded in the gravest tones. I too learned that reporting is a weapon to the bullies here. The psychology evident once they too are reported is straight out of the book. Cowards are like that. In one case a very numerically large poster here has decided to treat my posts with contempt, derision and insult and only in the last couple of days has laid low. I made the mistake of going head to head for a couple of rounds a while ago because they made me angry as he wanted, but unlike me and other decent people he doesn't know when to stop and needs to be instructed by people in greater authority than me. His employer is about to be notified and if all goes well, despite my failed attempts to contact the perpetrator directly to resolve, through no fault of mine, he is about to put his job on the line and face the full force of the cyber bullying laws. I am not frightened to name him but I'll keep my powder dry. He knows who he is. Another one attempted to bully me over a period and has gone. One of his better decisions in life. He actually retracted and left embarrassed, all of his own accord as far as I know. He remains an insult to the engineering profession and its international code of ethics. So my point is that this is all a serious matter. But no particular group, including the long stayers, are immune. I thought you might like to put that in you melting pot, Albatross, since you asked. It might perhaps help in broadening the current view. Cheers. |
kemort wrote: |
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I sent a message about that as well. Behave at will TIM, I've always found you to be respectful in your dealings with ppl, and far be it for me to sit in judgment on you. I also noticed osucs response to your weighing in there. Sometimes weighing in can be seen as stacks-on-the-mill and is counterproductive. Sometimes it might even be actionable at law when joined with the bully. Sometimes it's better not to get involved if no harm is being done. As we all know bullies rally support very easily from in-group people they frighten. Making rules (more rules!) to (innocently) protect them are regrettable. :) |
kemort wrote: |
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naraku9333@kemort I see nowhere this particular troll was bullied by any means. I'm glad I didn't make that assessment - either in relation to a troll or bully. Politeness is in the eye of the beholder. For instance you use the conventional @ which is not the way we speak in person unless we talk at somebody which I am sure you wouldn't do from what you say. You unfortunately got caught in a crossfire and decided to put your toe in the ring and it got unceremoniously snipped. I don't blame you for it. That's just the way it was in my estimation. I prefer not to be called a douche-bag too! The difficulty I see is that as we all know an internet post can often be interpreted badly simply because it is devoid of all the normal human interaction cues and gestures. Equally somebody who sees they have been misunderstood could dispel the misunderstanding by just saying Oops, I'm sorry or I didn't mean it that way and this is what I meant. I'm sure you know 'the game'. I hadn't planned on getting involved in a debate even though I don't mind being accountable for what I write. My intent as I stated was to broaden the view rather than getting involved in group-think. I'm confident you don't want that either. Cheers :) |
I saw another example of this in this topic today: |
Ispil wrote: |
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We could start by not showing when a post has been reported. |
...We could start by not showing when a post has been reported. |
MikeyBoy wrote: |
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Is it just me, or were trolls better in the old days? |
Not just you. |
MikeyBoy wrote: |
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I remember the good old days of Usenet. |