I'll agree that foul language doesn't belong on the forum, but I also think there are one or two people too happily reporting innocent postings here. I've been reported on some absolutely mundane stuff myself.
Buddhists aren't required to give up marriage.
http://www.budsas.org/ebud/whatbudbeliev/237.htm
Most Buddhist monks are asked to remain celibate while in their monastic community in order to help them be less distracted.
Anakin is still responsible for his actions. He chose to murder and reject good things over accepting what he couldn't control -- death and separation from a loved one.
Nevertheless, he
did go to Yoda to ask for help. But Yoda withheld his help. Rather than seek to comfort and direct Anakin in the very ways Yoda was himself seeking understanding, he simply told Anakin to give it all up, without explanation or consideration for the difficulty he was weighing on him.
That's pretty cold. He preferred Anakin fail miserably to follow his unbending version of reality than seek to council and direct him as he needed. Especially considering Yoda already knew that Anakin needed extra help -- he
knew Anakin's fears had great power over him. Yoda foolishly ignored all the things he knew about Anakin, and about what Anakin feared, saying no more than, essentially, "sorry, kid, get over it."
Where was Anakin to go? Was he not the elite of the "true" people? If not forward and upward, than only backward.
Yoda's own arrogance about his 'rightness' blinded him to his effective ultimatum.
Again, this may have just been some faux Buddhist enlightenment stuff that Lucas et al. were trying to project on the wise little puppet, following the common tropes of eastern mystic brevity and koans.
Buddhists, in reality, aren't like that. They want you to understand, but they also want you to work for the understanding. Further, they
invite you to follow paths that will lead you to better understand yourself. They don't exercise any dominion over your choices.
Maybe it's kind of like the way children with strict parents who aren't allowed to do anything go wild when they get old enough and become self destructive. |
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The force was unbalanced because the Jedi themselves were not balanced. They were extremists.