@OP and gobblewobble123: Try wxDev-C++: http://wxdsgn.sourceforge.net/?q=node/4
Other then being more up to date and being activley worked on you won't see much of a difference in the interface.
Eclipse and Netbeans are IDE. A C++ compiler is like g++ which is part of GCC http://gcc.gnu.org/
-I think you need to do some configuration work in your Netbeans or Eclipse to get them to work with C++ compilers
you can also try Visual C++ Express (windows-only) and Code::Blocks+MingW/GCC (multi-platform)